Like anything else, you need to practice at sex—and all the communicating that goes into it—before you can improve If your first time wasn’t what you expected, try to remember what you might think about next time, whether it’s being more forthright with a partner about your preferences, or trying something different during foreplay. Being a lesbian is hard, straight people have the privilege of dating young, experiencing sexual situations with their preferred sex etc A lot of lesbians (myself included) don’t get to experience that till they’re older. I remember my first sexual experience as if it happened yesterday It was a time when i was still struggling with accepting my sexuality, and every thought about sex brought a mixture of excitement and fear
As a lesbian, i felt the pressure not only to find someone who could understand me, but also to face societal norms that often reject romantic relationships between women What does losing your virginity mean for a lesbian When i was first in college, gathered with my friends over cheap beer and pepperoni pizza, the conversation often turned to “our first time.” no one went into too much salacious detail, but we were all interested in knowing who had done what with whom.
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