While certain principles guide sexual conduct, the church affirms the importance of love, respect, and communication within the marital relationship. So while a complete list of “do’s and don’ts” can’t be offered, catholic moral principles of sexuality in marriage can guide a couple in sexual behavior. One of those ways for married couples is sexual love It seems that the heart of your question is about this expression of sexual love and what is appropriate and in keeping with the intention of god for marriage Let’s look at your question from two points of view First, you mention that you are past childbearing years.
Thomas { what sexual play and pleasure is allowed between a husband and wife in marriage So, if one or more of those elements is deliberately avoided (like procreation), it disfigures the act.
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